To be happy
Create more memorable moments with carpet
I realise I don’t really have goals in life. Is being happy and stay happy a goal in life? If it is then that’s my goal. Stay simple and be happy. Learn to appreciate others and most importantly be myself.
As I grow, I’ve learnt that there are tons of things in life everyone is worrying about. Question like
Will I…
grow fat when I’m old
marry the wrong guy/gal
have cancer
What If…
I am sick
I don’t earn enough
things don’t go right
my kids don’t like to study
Sometime most of us worry too much that all these things doesnt even exist. So why worry over something that might never happen?
If i got a choice i would prefer to solve the problem when it happens. Life is short, we have to live to the fullest.
And most of us are living in other people’s world. Living in a world that someone wants you to live in. Is so influencial that other’s opinion can affect a person that much. We care too much of others opinion that we lost ourselve. And that “others” are usually people we care.
Like for example, I bought myself a car. I am happy at first! But people start telling me that i shouldnt have bought it because is useless. Or, you can use that money for other better things. You wont drive so frequently and why you buy it? I thought you got a family car?
I’m kind of affected at the beginning and feel that what they’ve said somehow sound realistic and true. After sometime I feel that it isn’t what i’ve thought at first. and i wouldn’t want to bring myself to what others are thinking. That’s their opinion, not mine. I’m happy that i’ve strike off something from my wishlist. I feel more like an achievement. Is just like, i love durian and you stop me from eating because durian contains high cholestrol. You’ve got a point from stopping me but i love durian.
Bottom line is.. Others are not wrong and you are not wrong too! Be ourselves, we all have choice. Choose the one you are happy with 
cheers and Happy New Year
Stay Healthy everyone!
